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My Bf doesn’t allow me to talk to other boys or even girls. But he does the same behind my back. We argue but I give in because jealousy is a sign of love, isn’t it?

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32 thoughts on “My Bf doesn’t allow me to talk to other boys or even girls. But he does the same behind my back. We argue but I give in because jealousy is a sign of love, isn’t it?

  1. My bf is very sweet & open minded.he never bothers when I talk to someone.. neither he does the same behind me nor he doubt on me..he trusts me

    1. Can u trust him…?
      * if he talk with unnoon pertion means other girl’s….then what u will be do.,?
      Trusting him or
      Doute him ,..just think

    2. I have jst completed 1 month of my rltn. .. but the main fact is that my gf is a professional singer. .. so she can’t give me time. .. but I never felt bad about it… I never doubted her … but she listen to the people who distracted her. Now she blocked me

    3. May be it is his love towards you. If you are talking to anyone in presence of him ,that will make him jealous definitely because in love ,our lover comes first and we must focus on the rest world later.

  2. This is serious issues in realtionship if she can’t do that then how you can do the same.If it is true love then both should have to talk once in these matter and further decision should take place because not everything jeleousy is love it maybe something different or a chance of losing his loved once.

  3. U might not give him first priority or something else wrong wid Tht people Tht he won’t allow u to talk to the people give good time to him and after Tht talk about d matter

  4. even i said to my bf that you can’t talk to any other girl nd I’m also follow this….ncz jalousy is both side..

  5. This is what exactly my bf does..i dont think its completely jealousy..it is utter possessiveness..controlling your partner to the extreme level

  6. Jealousy is love… Maybe…but here it is something else. First, there is no trust from his side 2. He is insecure 3. He has the I’m superior complex. 4. You let someone else decide how you should live your life. C’mon giRL.. seriously. 5. This may be anything but not love. 6.Your self respect is at question.
    Get rid of him..I’m sure you would find someone who will love you for who & what you are. Lastly, ask yourself…are you happy?

    1. Its right ….,,,,,she decided what’s the right or wrong……..bcs she spent time with him….she knows well…..,

      1. breakup is the solution.
        “My Bf doesn’t allow me to talk to other boys or even girls.”

        its not only about boys or jealousy.. his bf not allowing her to talk even girls.
        is his bf afraid of something..is there any secret or dark side which he wants to hide from her.

        we all have different opinions & different advises.

        BUT ONLY HE KNOWS THE VALID REASON.
        THANKS,

  7. Love main jb tak trust nah hoga kuch nah ho sakta chahe kisi se baat kro ya nah sapoce that ki apki merriage apke lover se ho jaye tb bhi wo apke samne kya aisi he conditions rakhenge love ka means trust care n importance of life hota na ki conditions dependes other persons careless ya shakk k base pr..I don’t know my think wrong n right but jitna me janti love is a gift of god so jo true love krega wo kbhi apne crush k sath cheet nah krega…

  8. Its not jealousy… Its bcoz he hides things from you which he fears that ur friends might tell you

  9. If he does same thing behind ur back but stop you to do then he is smart not jealous.
    Leave him before he used and then dump you.

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