Care vs Control andrewkillen posted:

I love a boy very much but he forces me to come to his room all the time. He keeps trying physical stuff with me. I don’t want to lose him, but I feel uncomfortable with the things he asks me to do. Should I continue going to his room?

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61 thoughts on “I love a boy very much but he forces me to come to his room all the time. He keeps trying physical stuff with me. I don’t want to lose him, but I feel uncomfortable with the things he asks me to do. Should I continue going to his room?

  1. No…Because if he really loves you then he will not Force you for physical relationship…Because True love doesn’t need physical relation..

    1. Yes offcorse…..but kabhi – kuch logo ko aisa bhi hota h…,,,y sab usually sabhi k liy hota h…..male ho ya female….ek ko se# ki uttejana pada ho jati h….

    2. Correct
      Agr pyr hi hai to use hmari feeling ki respect krte hue hmare ek Baar mna krne k baad dovara bolna hi no Chahiye is sv k liye…..

  2. Wat the hell. How can you love such a person.. one thing i jst wana tell you love that person who loves you not whom you love and if he would have loved you he would never ever forced you for anythind.. stop going to his room and he is using you plz don’t go. Lyk i understand this prblm of urs bt you have to leave him and you have no other option than this because he not even care for you.. STOP GOING TO HIS ROOM and tell him not to force you and if he does not stop.. complain against him😡😡😡😡

    1. Love is blind .. not her mistake ..but he is wrong .. we also cant able to say that about him because we dont know that he also loving her or not ..if he loves her then its plesure to become and make also physical relationship

  3. Love is deep.if u feel uncomfortable then u should realise u r not in love and if u r partner is forcing u to come in his room then he also don’t love u. So plz love someone who actually loves u

  4. It’s best if u get distant from him.. He just wants advantage from as he very well knows how much u luv him. True don’t bother physical relationship.

  5. Their is 2 points .. if he really care really in love with you then he cant force you only argue with you and never come physical without ur happyness.. because their is 2 type of boys 1st how is heart less ,they enjoying and dump and 2nd they who come physical only for make his relationship strong ..max boys think that if they attempt sex then girl never can dump if she is real good cerector.. i think u hav to go bt with secorty if he really loves you then he only ask for physical and after that you said no then he dont do that again without ur happyness

  6. Their is 2 points .. if he really care really in love with you then he cant force you only argue with you and never come physical without ur happyness.. because their is 2 type of boys 1st how is heart less ,they enjoying and dump and 2nd they who come physical only for make his relationship strong ..max boys think that if they attempt sex then girl never can dump if she is real good cerector.. i think u hav to go bt with secorty if he really loves you then he only ask for physical and after that you said no then he dont do that again without ur happyness

  7. You should talk to Him aBout this.
    And if he loves you truly he will understand you.
    And inspite of being physical you guys can chill out.

  8. No it is not love
    ऐसे लोगों से तो दूर ही रहना चाहिए जो आपको बस use करना चाहते हैं आप उनसे प्यार करते हो तो क्या वो तो आपसे नही करते दिल तो टूटना ही है पहले टूट जाएगा तो आप बच तो जाओगे

  9. U really think he is in love with u???….well I don’t think so!!!…for once just ask him to do anything that u want against his wishes…u will get ur answer….

  10. As u told, it is clear that he is interested being physically with u. It will be better if u ask him if he loves u for entering to ur pants or he loves u truly. If he truly loves u then he will never force u to have physical with him.

  11. If you are uncomfortable with the moves he makes, tell him directly, you need to opento your partner about your opinions, there is no love without respect

  12. See if u love him talk about his physical needs. Make hin understand about CONSENT and if he doesn’t care about consent,fucking leave him he’s a male whore!

  13. Well if you actually enjoy the thrill, go for it. Keep in mind few things.
    There is no love in this relationship. It’s all about the physical needs. Don’t even think of commitment.
    Make sure he is not very aggressive & he is not hurting you. Such people might get aggressive causing physical abuse.If he is trying out new things, make sure you are at your comfort level. Also make sure there is no camera around.
    GirL if he is forcing you for anything, kick his balls. Use protection when you indulge physically. Hey always remember we live in a hypocrite society where no matter who is wrong,the fingers will point towards the girl.

    1. NICE REPLY DUDE, BUT GUESS THE MAIN REASON THE GIRL IS CONFUSED BOUT HOW TO DEAL WITH THIS SITUATION REALLY IS CAUSE OF THE PLOT TWIST, “THE GUY IS HER BROTHER “!!! DHUNN DHUNN DHAAAANGGGGG!!!

  14. Try to make him clear that his wants r necessary n u respect his feelings but u tell him u r not ready n in this way he is getting low in ur heart….

  15. You love him is good, but do he loves you?
    In love we don’t do business, we respect , we care each others feeling. If he is eager for your body than he is not in love with you…he only goes physical with you and afterwards he will leave you…So stope caring n loving him…

  16. Tell him that u need tym try to make him understan … that u arnt comfortable yet if he understands n dnt ask you again thn simply means he respect your feeling if he dnt thn move onn

  17. No,it’s totally worthless, stop going to his room,true love doesn’t need physical satisfaction ! Make him feel your true love,if he doesn’t gives a shit to your feelings then get the shit out of it !

  18. Dear…
    Even sometimes someone with rich thoughts came to u just as all above.. but what my suggestion is that be physical coz relationship also requires alot of physical intouch to ReMaiN strong .
    If someone wants to criticize me then a line 4 them is….
    “Why didn’t a boy falls in a true love with a lesbian
    Why didn’t a girl falls in a true love with a gay…”
    What matters i hope u got this…

  19. You shouldn’t do anything that makes you uncomfortable unless you want to do it. Also you should tell the boy to look up the terms ‘free will’ and ‘consent’.

  20. chlo…sex need hoti hai…sbme feelings hoti hai…pr agr wo force kr rhaa hai to wo galat insaan hai , jb tk tu comfortable na hojye mtt krnaa .

  21. girls kyu nhi comfortable ho paati , aur boys hmesha ready rhate hai…asaa kyu hai??? jbki sex is natural human feelings

  22. U can also hve a opinion in this way tht
    He Jst wanna love u more in a way,
    Well it ur decision
    To go or not
    Because u knw him
    More than any..

  23. Nudes etc send karna ek sexual fantasy hai ek dusre k nudes pvt part k pic tak to chalega par privacy ki wajah se sare nudes without face ho achha hai. With face agar koi nudes mangta h to its mean wo love nahi karta wo isliye dekhna chahta h taki future me us pics dikha k kuchh v dabav bana sake.

  24. You need to know if the guy is afraid to lose you just like what you feel about losing herself. You need to tell him if you dont feel comfortable anytime.If he truly loves you then he will always want you to be comfortable in every situation. I am a boy and I know how a guy treat his love.

  25. Stop going to his room but if u r in true love with him sometimes you have to do many things which u don’t want to do only for the happiness of your partner

  26. Tell him about you don’t feel comfortable with this thing. I’m sure, if he really loves you, being physical won’t be the first priority, but you. Just because you love him, don’t do or get into stuffs you’re not really comfortable in. And if he keeps forcing you for such stuffs, i’mma tell you girl, he ain’t the right one for you. #deshbachaofkboyhatao. OK sorry😂. Bye.

  27. STOP BEING SUCH A FRIGID AUNTY AND GET ON WITH THE PROGRAM! ON THE OTHER HAND, IF U DON’T LIKE GETTING PHYSICAL WITH HIM THEN MAYBE U NEED TO SORT URSELF IN THE HEAD AND REPRIORITISE THE REASONS WHY THE HECK ARE YOU EVEN WITH A GUY WHO DOESNT EVEN GET UR JUICES FLOWING IN ANY WAY LIKE THAT TO BEGIN WITH!??!? STOP WASTING EVERYONE’S TIME ESPECIALLY DAT GUYS BY BEING SUCH A TURN OFF MISSY! 😡

  28. I think u should really stop going to room….
    And somehow u disagree with this point that ,,true love doesn’t require any physical relationship…
    Actually true love only requires physical relationship but when,,if both of u r comfortable…with that

  29. Don’t go just stop going .He don’t love you.He is selfish.Just using you that’s it.This is not love.

  30. Certainly not.
    When you don’t feel comfortable doing something, you certainly should not do it. And if he can’t understand that, he doesn’t love you. The way you describe the situation, citing that he forces you all the time, it doesn’t seem like love at all. He’s just lusting after you and keeping up a pretense of “love” to keep you tied to him.

    The question is… What made you love him?
    If it was the way he complimented you or how nice he made you feel with his words, then you can surely discount that reason to feel love for him.

    It’s perfectly OK to enjoy that kind of flirting, or conversations if you may. But don’t be too quick to conclude it as love, or to give in to such demands that make you uncomfortable.

    Believe that you are smart, strong and beautiful. And you don’t need his words of approval to make you feel valued or loved.

    Talk to him, tell him about how you feel about his demands and attempts to get physical with you. And if he doesn’t address your concerns calmly and maturely, i.e. without getting angry or making it sound like you are denying him a basic right, ditch him.

  31. Well if you love this guy than go for it if you love this person and if you want in with your life so go for it and I’m not talking about sex and stuff just kiss him that’s all you have to do to win his heart and if your Care about him like you are trying to get him friendzone (because every boy it’s sucks)than slap him baat him to the death and next day day sorry to and if he is not listening who care their are more good guys to use it

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